so much for a small affair.
this weekend, my father’s “uncle” benny and his wife aida came out of nowhere to visit my grandmother. have i ever met these people? probably not. am i even related to them? nope. are they invited? at this point, yes.
add my aunt’s recent list of family members, my mom’s mention of miscellaneous friends and distant cousins, and brian’s mom’s mention of east coast relatives and you’ve got yourself a big party with random people.
such is a wedding, i suppose.
so…. the decision has been made to send out invites asap as to avoid the ballooning of the guest list. etiquette says 6 weeks prior is reasonable. what do they say about 6 months? yikes.
